I watch 2 programs on television – both are ‘real episodes of crime’.  The lessons from that:

– do not take anything for granted. One woman (with her father’s help) and along with her new boy friend kills her husband. The kid is 17 years old and helpless.

Learning: make a will, and do not assume that all the money from the wife will automatically flow to the kids. NORMALLY it does, but in real life it could be different, be careful.

Most of the crimes relate to money. Even girls being kidnapped to be put into the flesh trade is about money, right?

teach delayed gratification, even if that is the only thing you teach your kid.

Most of the problems are not law and order, it is something that happens INSIDE THE HOUSE. Greed, lust, envy, anger, jealousy – all happen inside. Most of the crime is solved by the involved person, not by the police doing the investigation.

Learning: You need to manage your investing, do not expect the regulator to solve micro issues. THEY CANNOT. Use the resources that they provide.

Your children need friends immediately outside the house just in case they are subject to incest. Seen an episode where a girl was made a sex slave by her father and brother. When mother tried to squeal she was also killed.

Learning: Look for abnormal behavior and be willing to seek police help.

IMPORTANT learning: never ever confront the thief. Relax. Go to the police, lawyer, friends, gather strength and then attack the thief.

Remember: the dowry law is terribly anti husband. So if you are an affected husband, seek legal help before you fight with your wife.